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I have been out nearly 7 years now age 16, sophomore year of HS. I internalized everything society told me. You could definitely be gay, but I would simmer in the community for a bit since you’re married and telling your spouse will certainly lead to divorce if you are in fact gay.

How can I be sure I’m gay if I haven’t had sex? Just be strong. Scientific research has shown that sexual orientation is not something that can be changed. Boston College Libraries. See BC resources: bit. I am not going to lie to you. Previous Post Previous Bookworm today!

I love you. I especially appreciate that you told others they are loved and important- so true! Several U. There are many people you can safely talk to about your feelings and questions. Self love is a beautiful process, and it is ongoin. Being gay is about who you are attracted to, who you fall in love and have long-lasting, meaningful relationships with.

Thank you for being so supportive and for sharing your story honestly. Just know that you are loved, you are important and it is amazing to be queer, as it is a valid identity and many people are. How do I stop being gay? If people do not accept you for who you are, then it is their loss not yours.

People who are questioning their sexual orientation are also welcome. BC is lucky you are here. Search the Library Submit Search. It really sucks. Dear Abby advises a woman who believes that her son is gay, all the while trying to navigate the relationship between her husband and son.

There are also Boston area groups if you prefer something off-campus. BC Home Mission Feedback. That week I told my friends and family I was gay. What if Am I Gay? Here are real signs you’re questioning your identity, and what it means to explore it safely.

There are some great BC groups where you can meet supportive peers. There was a point where i was looking at the train tracks on the T ride home waiting for a train to come so I could jump Thankfully I had a change of heart and now i look back at that day.

It is hard here.